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Three And A Half Years PF – Post Frankie

Three And A Half Years PF – Post Frankie

I know, I know….I have not been as good as updating this blog recently. This is one project where my Libran indecisiveness, which I have in abundance, has been very much at play and over the last year I’ve had a strong should I/shouldn’t I write in it and update it...

It Was The Year Of Rebuilding….

It Was The Year Of Rebuilding….

"It was the year of fire... the year of destruction... the year we took back what was ours. It was the year of rebirth... the year of great sadness... the year of pain... and the year of joy. It was a new age. It was the end of history. It was the year everything...

The Kindness Of Strangers: Restoring My Faith In The World And In People

The Kindness Of Strangers: Restoring My Faith In The World And In People

It is ironic that a couple of weeks or so ago I wrote this post entitled “The Power Of Forgiveness” about being betrayed by people who I thought were my friends and about how forgiving them had allowed me to move on with my life and achieve things I had never thought...

The Power Of Forgiveness

The Power Of Forgiveness

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies. Martin...

I’m Back…But Where Have I Been?

I’m Back…But Where Have I Been?

Peeks up tentatively to say hello….. And yes, I know that a few months ago, I said I was going to wind Frankie’s Legacy as a blog down. I know I said I was going to get a new blog going called “Happiness Personified”. But that didn’t happen. None of it happened. So...

I Have A Dream…..

I Have A Dream…..

On August 28th 1963, Martin Luther King stood up and said four words that changed the world – “I have a dream.” I too have a dream. In fact I have lots of dreams…. I have a dream that I am the mother of a strapping two and a half year old little boy. He is testing the...

Almost 2 Months On….Where Am I Now?

Almost 2 Months On….Where Am I Now?

I know that I posted on November 14th 2015 saying that "all good things must come to an end" with the intention of moving over to my new blog "Happiness Personified", which at the time seemed like the right thing to do. At that point I had just laid Frankie to rest...

Dear Zia Maria…..

Dear Zia Maria…..

Dear Zia Maria, Zia….that’s Italian for Aunty. But you have been so much more to me than just an Aunty.  You were always there for me to help, guide and advise from the moment I was born.  You helped to look after me, to bring me up and you were a constant part of my...

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS – Frankie’s Mummy & Founder of Frankie’s Legacy

Frankie was a small pebble dropped into the lake of life…but his ripple will be felt forever…

My blog “Frankie’s Legacy: Love, Loss Grief & Recovery” focuses on raising awareness of early pregnancy loss, stillbirth, neonatal death, cleft lip/palate and rare chromosome disorders.

My much loved and much wanted son Francesco “Frankie” Enrico Ventura was born sleeping on 29/11/2013 and had a severe cleft lip/palate, talipes and an extremely rare chromosome disorder (chromosome 15 duplication syndrome).

This blog focuses on my journey as an empty armed mother, and about how I am surviving stillbirth, celebrating Frankie and creating his lasting legacy as best I can.

With much love,

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS
Frankie’s Mummy
xxxxx

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