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Worcestershire Acute NHS Trust Staff Appreciation Service 2015

Worcestershire Acute NHS Trust Staff Appreciation Service 2015

Last Sunday I had the honour of being asked to read at the Worcestershire Acute NHS Trust Staff Appreciation Service at Worcester Cathedral. I was asked to give an account of my experience with the NHS and the hospital, and writing something for the event came very...

A New Month…And A New Start

A New Month…And A New Start

I wrote in my last blog entry about how busy this August has been compared to previous ones.  Usually in August I start to twiddle my thumbs and wish the month away so that things can get back to normal in September after the holiday season.  Everything seems to shut...

Sometimes….Just Sometimes….It Is OK To Get Off The Ferris Wheel

Sometimes….Just Sometimes….It Is OK To Get Off The Ferris Wheel

Gosh, it has been a while since my last post on here, and yet….it feels like it was just two minutes ago since I was posting about losing my beloved German Shepherd Curley. So much has happened since then, so many more trials and tribulations, so many more things to...

Drawing A Line…And Moving On

Drawing A Line…And Moving On

It is a week today since I lost Curley, and I still feel lost and devastated without her.  But as hard as it is, I have to try and carry on.  She wouldn’t want me to mope, I know she wouldn’t, just as Frankie wouldn’t want me to mope. It’s funny, but since I was 28 my...

Life PC (Post Curley)

Life PC (Post Curley)

It is now 4 days PC (post Curley) and it is only now that I feel able to write about how I feel.  What I’m about to say may shock some of you reading this, although some of you will hopefully understand it. How I feel about losing my Curley is right up there with how...

Dear Frankie….Please Look After Curley For Me

Dear Frankie….Please Look After Curley For Me

Dear Frankie, At 7.27pm last Friday night you were probably greeted with the sight of a young German Shepherd running towards you with a big smile on her face and wagging her tail.  You didn’t get to see her, but you heard her barking and felt her head resting against...

RIP My Beautiful Furbaby Curley…19th June 2015

RIP My Beautiful Furbaby Curley…19th June 2015

I know there has been a long gap since I last posted on here, but I’m going through one of the hardest times that I’ve been through since losing Frankie.  The last two weeks have been very hard indeed, and yesterday they culminated in me and my husband having to make...

Finding The BF (Before Frankie) Me Again….

Finding The BF (Before Frankie) Me Again….

I’ve had a break from writing anything for this blog for a bit.  There is still so much I want to write, still so much I want to say, still so much awareness raising I want to do. But this last week or so I have also returned to something that I was doing BF – before...

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS – Frankie’s Mummy & Founder of Frankie’s Legacy

Frankie was a small pebble dropped into the lake of life…but his ripple will be felt forever…

My blog “Frankie’s Legacy: Love, Loss Grief & Recovery” focuses on raising awareness of early pregnancy loss, stillbirth, neonatal death, cleft lip/palate and rare chromosome disorders.

My much loved and much wanted son Francesco “Frankie” Enrico Ventura was born sleeping on 29/11/2013 and had a severe cleft lip/palate, talipes and an extremely rare chromosome disorder (chromosome 15 duplication syndrome).

This blog focuses on my journey as an empty armed mother, and about how I am surviving stillbirth, celebrating Frankie and creating his lasting legacy as best I can.

With much love,

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS
Frankie’s Mummy
xxxxx

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