Lisa’s Blog

Francesco Enrico – 12 Week Scan Photo

Finally I'd made it to the magic 12 week mark, I couldn't believe it!  I was on cloud nine and so happy to have got to this stage at last.  So on July 15th my husband and I were back up at the hospital for a check up and 12 week scan. As the sonographer brought up an...

Francesco Enrico – First Trimester Scan Photos

The moment I found out I was pregnant and had a positive test I went straight to my GP who referred me for an early scan at 6 weeks due to my history of miscarriages, even though every indication was that those miscarriages were as a result of my ex-husband's genetic...

The Journey To Motherhood – Acceptance (Wednesday 9th October 2013)

It is said that there are five stages of grief that you go through when something really bad happens to you: Shock/denial Bargaining Anger Depression Acceptance In the days that followed I seemed to get past the shock/denial stage, and bypassed the bargaining, anger...

The Journey To Motherhood – Part 3 (May 2013 to September 2013)

I bought some pregnancy tests from Superdrug during the day on May 16th.  I’m usually as regular as clockwork, but I was now definitely 3 days late.  I thought I was “out” that month as a few days before I’d had a bit of spotting, which I usually get a couple of days...

The Journey To Motherhood – Part 2 (February 2012 to May 2013)

So on Saturday 25th February 2012, I was suddenly on my own.  Not only was it the end of my marriage and also my career (I’d put everything into working with my ex-husband for his software development company) my dreams of being a mother lay in tatters.  All sorts of...

The Journey To Motherhood – Part 1 – (2003 to 2012)

The Journey To Motherhood – Part 1 – (2003 to 2012)

I got married to my first husband when I was only 21 in 1996.  I had a big white wedding that my parents paid for; think of the film “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” and it wouldn’t be far off the sort of wedding I had.  In my 20’s I learnt to dodge all the comments and...

Welcome To Baby And Cleft

Welcome to Baby and Cleft, a blog and information resource about cleft lip, palate and associated conditions. My name is Lisa, and my unborn baby boy has recently been diagnosed with a cleft lip and possible palate during a 23 week ultrasound scan.  My husband and I...

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS – Frankie’s Mummy & Founder of Frankie’s Legacy

Frankie was a small pebble dropped into the lake of life…but his ripple will be felt forever…

My blog “Frankie’s Legacy: Love, Loss Grief & Recovery” focuses on raising awareness of early pregnancy loss, stillbirth, neonatal death, cleft lip/palate and rare chromosome disorders.

My much loved and much wanted son Francesco “Frankie” Enrico Ventura was born sleeping on 29/11/2013 and had a severe cleft lip/palate, talipes and an extremely rare chromosome disorder (chromosome 15 duplication syndrome).

This blog focuses on my journey as an empty armed mother, and about how I am surviving stillbirth, celebrating Frankie and creating his lasting legacy as best I can.

With much love,

Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS
Frankie’s Mummy
xxxxx

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